Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Travel Adventures

I'm only about 22 hours into my 45-ish hours of travel, and I already have some stories to tell. I started out at the train station in Kalamazoo, where I managed not to cry after saying goodbye to Jeff. I took the train to Chicago, then walked to the CTA Blue Line (subway) station and took that to the airport. When I got to the airport, I ended up going to Terminal 3, rather than 5, because of confusion over which airline I was on. My itinerary said American Airlines, but I didn't notice that it said "Operated by Etihad" under it, so it took me a while to figure out where I was supposed to be. A nice ticket agent named Jaqoob checked me in, checked my bag, and gave me my boarding pass. He told me that since I switch to Air India in Abu Dhabi, I would need to go pick my bag up there, and then re-check it with Air India. Okay.

The plane was very nice, which was fun. I had a spiced lamb curry for dinner number 1 and pasta for dinner number 2. They offered sandwiches in between, but I wasn't hungry then. I got a glass of red wine with my lamb curry, and I was surprised when the beverage guy filled the cup--the same kind they use for juices, and a slightly larger size than I've seen on other airlines--all the way to the top. So after some wine and some  sleep aids, I was able to sleep for a decent while. I had the window seat, and the people near me were respectful, so it was a good (but LONG--14 hrs) flight.

So when I got in to Abu Dhabi, my first priority was figuring out where I was supposed to be and finding my bag. People in airport uniform were stationed in various places in the hallways to ask where we were going and tell us which way to go. I kept saying, "I'm going to New Delhi, but not on Etihad. I'm taking Air India. And will my bag go through, or where do I get it?" and the uniformed people would say, "This way, please, Terminal 1."

I wandered around Terminal 1 for a while trying to figure out who could tell me about my bag, and I found the Flight Transfers counter. This is the exciting part of my story. Two different people told me to talk to someone else, and then I handed a ticket agent my passport and baggage claim ticket and waited for him to get off the phone and pay attention to me. Meanwhile, a disgruntled French man walked up to the counter next to me and tried to talk to another agent at the counter. But the agent didn't speak French. I offered to translate. After about 5 minutes, I had translated their whole conversation: French guy lost his bag on the plane, agent said they probably wouldn't find it, but he would ask, French guy should come back in two hours. Simple enough. Agent and French guy thanked me and looked relieved. The agent who had my passport smiled at me, told me not to worry about a thing, my bag is checked through to my final destination and whoever told me otherwise was lying (sorry Jaqoob). He printed my boarding passes, told me where to go, and said he hoped I had a great flight.

Maybe that wasn't actually that exciting to anyone else. I get really nervous speaking French with French people, though, since my French is all Senegal-ified. I was happy with myself for speaking up and saying I could translate for them and resolving what had been a somewhat tense situation.

Now I have to kill another 3.5 hours before my flight. Flying to New Delhi should take about 3.5 hours, then I have an 8-hour layover in New Delhi before my 1.5 hour flight to Ranchi, where I will meet someone from the organization and drive 2.5 hours to my new home.

So much more to go! But at least it's going much faster than I expected.

Monday, May 6, 2013

0: Travel Begins

I leave for my 45-ish hours of travel in just a few hours. I'm double- and triple-checking my lists and getting the last things ready to go. Stay tuned for pictures and musings later!

Monday, April 29, 2013

-1

I still know very little about where I'm going to be and what I'm going to do. I am trying not to get too stressed about it. I have a few more final exams to grade for my TA class today (UPDATE: Grading is done!), and then I will be able to spend the rest of my time here preparing to leave.

It's scary to think of going because I know so little. Rather than thinking that I'm going to India, in my head I'm just going away. Since I haven't experienced India, it's kind of a blank to me. I'm excited to find out what it's like, but preparing to leave feels like preparing to jump into a void. Which is cool, I guess, but it's also pretty scary.

As I'm writing this I'm remembering what it was like to prepare to leave for Senegal. That was a much more dramatic kind of departure: I knew even less about Senegal than I do about India, I was going to be gone for more than twice as long, I was breaking up with my then-boyfriend of a year when I got on the plane, my college gave me tons of information that I didn't feel like I could absorb, and I really didn't know what kinds of amenities I would have in terms of privacy, plumbing, internet, and power. So when I was packing for Senegal, I felt like I was shoving things in a suitcase and mentally preparing for the end of my life (dramatic, I know).

It is comforting to know that when I come back, I will still have my family (albeit a bit far away), my friends, my relationship, a place to live, and all that good stuff. None of that seemed like a sure thing when I was leaving for Senegal (except the family part).

[I was about to type, "So I'm counting my blessings," and then I thought about how silly that phrase seems. If you have blessings worth counting, you probably have too many to count, so that would be an exercise in futility. Why don't we say, "appreciating" or "acknowledging" our blessings?]

So, I'm appreciating my rich, full life and getting ready to add another adventure to the books.

One week to departure.

Monday, April 22, 2013

-2

I leave in two weeks. To be honest, I haven't had time to give it much thought, and I'm kind of grateful for that. I have my last final exam of the semester tonight, and then on Thursday the class I TA for takes their exam. That means I'll have free time Tuesday and Wednesday, and then I'll be busy Thursday-Monday, and then I'll just have a week to prepare for my departure.

This last weekend I had a bunch of friends in town, the circus club (of which I was president last year) had their spring show, I went with Jeff to his newest niece's baptism and hung out with the family, and I enjoyed lots of good food. My stress level is much, much lower now than it has been for weeks. I'm working on scheduling lunches and coffee dates with friends to make sure I get to see everyone here before I leave, and I've been thinking a lot about what life will look like when I come back. My friends who are seniors at K College will have graduated and moved away by then, and most of my college friends will be gone for the summer. Somehow in the last month and a half of summer, I'll need to schedule time to visit California and go to Yosemite, and hopefully go camping with Jeff and our Kzoo friends somewhere in Michigan. It will be an exciting time.

I'm trying to get myself to stop thinking of my India time as filler, which I hadn't realized I was doing until recently. In my head, it's been this blank period of time that I just have to get through so I can move on with the rest of my life. But getting field experience, integrating into a new culture, potentially learning to cook new and exciting things, meeting potentially fabulous people--it is all way more exciting than I've been giving it credit for. I've been too busy worrying about getting lonely, thinking about what movies and TV shows and knitting projects I should take with me, to think about the positive things. So I guess that's my project for the next two weeks.

Wow. Two weeks.

Monday, April 15, 2013

-3 and Half Marathon

Wow...I leave three weeks from today. I still won't have a whole lot of time to think about that until about Thursday, when my papers will be submitted. On Saturday, I finally ran my first half marathon! It was really fun and challenging...for the first 10 miles. And then I was burned out and wanted nothing to do with it. Fortunately, I still finished, and I got a reasonable, if not impressive, time. I finished in 2 hrs, 22 mins. That means I averaged 10:50ish per mile, which is a little faster than I had been training. I ran the first 10 miles at the pace my friend Sarah was setting, which was considerably faster than I was used to, which contributed to my exhaustion after mile 10. I walked a LOT the last 3.1 miles, and I was kicking myself for it and feeling bad about myself the whole time. Fortunately, it's hard to be too critical of yourself when several hundred people are cheering you on as you cross the finish line. So that was nice.

I have a lot of work to do today through Wednesday, so I'm going to do all I can to stay focused and positive, get going early in the mornings, and keep myself from going crazy or convincing myself that everything I write sucks. Tomorrow night Jeff and I will (hopefully!) go to the Wine Loft, where they have a special every Tuesday for half off all bottles of wine. Wednesday I have class and Jeff is coaching a soccer game, but it is Jeff's birthday, so we'll go out on Thursday to celebrate with friends. And by then, I will be in a better place and will be able to relax and enjoy myself more easily.

Okay, off to work I go! Wish me luck.

Thursday, April 11, 2013

Excitement?!

Yesterday I was so stressed out that I felt sick to my stomach even thinking about everything I have to do, which made me unable to do much, which made me more stressed out. It sucked. Fortunately, this morning I woke up not only feeling better, but with a new mindset!

Here's what it looks like:

Wow! I'm doing so well in my grad program that they decided to give me a $500 scholarship, and no one else I know got one, so they must really like me! I know how to be a good student, and I know that I will get everything done on time, so I should enjoy the journey! In two days, I get to run a half marathon, knowing that I have trained for it and will enjoy it and will finish! And afterwards, I have a party to go to with all my school friends! My papers will be all done by mid-week next week, and then I will get to actually start thinking about how awesome my India experience will be! And isn't it cool that going to Senegal in 2010-11 made me laid back enough about foreign travel that the idea of living in India is the least stressful thing on my mind?

So, with that new mindset, I have gotten a solid start on one of my two term papers, graded quizzes from my TA class, outlined my second term paper, done some more research, and SMILED! Here's to living a rich, full life.

Monday, April 8, 2013

-4

Today marks four weeks from my departure date. My half marathon is this Saturday, so I need to find a place to stay near Grand Rapids on Friday night and do a couple short runs this week. I'm really nervous. On Wednesday night, I am giving a presentation in my Comparative Development Strategies class. That shouldn't take me long to prepare, but I also have to get going on term papers. I've been doing fairly well at researching and typing up quotes that I might want to use, but I haven't gotten a solid outline or started writing either of my papers.

My awful statistics class is officially over now, which is good. The last assignment for it was a supplemental course evaluation, in which we were supposed to offer our opinions and constructive criticism about various aspects of the course. I emailed the department chair because this assignment makes up 4% of our grade, and we are graded on the quality of our responses. Given that I found the course to be a useless waste of time, I was worried that I would drag my grade down by being honest. We'll see what happens with that.

Here's my checklist from last week. I was able to cross a few more items off. The biggest things I need to worry about are 1. writing and submitting term papers, and 2. getting final exams for my TA class graded in time.


  • Public Admin term paper presentation
  • Comparative Development term paper presentation
  • submit Public Admin term paper
  • submit Comparative Development term paper
  • Public Admin final exam
  • Stats final exam
  • grade Russian Politics final exam
  • buy plane ticket to India
  • get visa for India
  • run half marathon
The past few weeks, I've been struggling with insomnia and migraines. My goal this week is to get a lot of restful sleep, de-stress through running and breathing exercises, and continue making progress and crossing things off my list.